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i need help!! on the 14 wich was last night i lost my virginity but the thing is that i am only 14 now i am really scared that i can be pregnate. i am supoose to start my period sometime next week i dont know what to do or i dont know any sympotoms that i may get. so all night i was thinking and praying that i was not pregnate and it has been in my mind all day what do i do?:( :confused:
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The only thing you can really do is give it a week or more, and see if you get your period. If you do, you are probably not pregnant, if you don't, take a pregnancy test. The thing is, when you choose to be sexually active, you need to choose to be responsible for your actions and sometimes that means waiting it out and being under some stress regarding the outcome of your actions. Sex can make babies, so if you really don't want to get pregnant, the only 100% effective birth control is abstainence. Take care.
hey, i can imagine what your going through. im am a guy buit im in a similar position. i learned my g/f was pregnant last thursday. we are so not ready. what i realized is you need to be responsible, you should save sex for marriage, but if your gunna have sex outside of marriage, make sure your protecting yourself from STD and unwanted pregnancy. since i learned my g/f is pregnant that even tho we have to sacrifice alot of ourselves now, we have created life and we need to give our baby the opportunity all people deserve.
Well girly by now you should know if your with child and I pray for your sake that your not.But if you are you should talk to your parents as soon as possible it will be scary but you have to tell them sooner or later. And a case of pregnancy it is always better to do it sooner than later. They will be hurt but above all they will be conserned for you there daughter. I have three daughtersand I hope they would come to me if they got in trouble. And if you aren't pregnant please wait until your more resonsible to make life changing choices such as having sex again.You have your whole life ahead of you don't ruin it by make bad choices. Always Palicia
Girly, if you had sex last night and you're supposed to get your period next week (assuming next week means the days that follow this weekend) then you would most likely not be pregnant. Frankly, if you are not ready to be a parent, what you need to do is tell your parents that you lost your virginity last night, had unprotected sex and are unsure of whether or not you could be pregnant. You then need to locate a Planned Parenthood or possibly just your mother's own gynecologist and find out which one can give you a perscription for Plan B, also known as the morning after pill. It is effective up to seventy two hours after unprotected sex. You need to investigate who will give you the perscription as well as who will fill the perscription because it is a very controversial pill. Girly, if you are about to tell us that you're "too scared" to tell your parents this information and ask them for help, please stop and think how they will react if you are pregnant. True, they're not going to be pleased. True, my guess would be that they restrict your extra-curricular (or, to be blunt, sexual) activities. At this point, though, you just stated that you are not ready for the consequences that come with unprotected sex. Allow your parents to help you; that is what they are there for. Best of luck. For those about to jump down my throat, Plan B is not an "abortion" pill. All it does is make the body act as though it is all ready pregnant so that a fertilized egg (if it is fertilized) will not attach to the uterine wall. It's a body trick.
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