searching birth parents 3/3/60 girl

HiI belive I contacted you on aol I wanted you to know the man who has been contacting you is your birth mothers husband BE CAREFUL of this and Know that you are better off with out this birth family Your choice but I found out the hard way I have been changing my profile leaving diffrent messags there just in case you ever go back there My search is over I will not interfear with your life I hope and pray you had good parents and lots of love.I don't understand the feeling I have for you probly never will but know this I would NOT trade lives with you would not wish my life on any one and if you ever did just too see how much we are or aren't alike I would come to you any information I can get know that I will but you need to stay right where you are Please don't take this the wrong way I mean no harm not trying to be mean just trying to protect you from more hurt I sure wish I had listened WHAT YOU DON"T KNOW WILL NOT HURT YOU I'll be thinking of you Take care of you ,,heart trouble is the biggest thing that runs in the geans and ADD

I have reason to belive I contacted you on AOL after thinking about what you said I know the man who has contacted you is truly your birth mom's husband BE CAREFUL I will leave messages in my profile for you if you care to read them Here's what I was told when I started my search WHAT YOU DON"T KNOW WON"T HURT YOU maybe I should have taken heed to the words But I'm determend once my mind is set I don't stop till I get to the end and now my whole life is upside down,,,,and they say the truth will set you free that's funny Any way my best advise to you would be the same If you ever wanted to meet with me just becuse we share so much I am willing to come too you and be as decreat as you like and if not that's okay too but do yourself a favor and be happy Heart trouble and ADD or ADHD runs in the family You were a famly secert but the feeling I had for you uncovered it and made many many very mad You take care see you in the mirror LO XXXXX to ya

Do you or have you ever applied for your NON ID info - if you were adopted at 3 months, were you in foster care, still with birth mom? relatives? Maybe I can help. I am a Reunited Adoptee and have channels to help with (free) Each state is different- reply here on message board or if you can to me privately breno@winisp.net would be great! Hope to hear from you soon kiddo, BrenO

It is very possible you might be my sister :) I'v searched long and hard to find you I can't wait to tell you this crazy story I know you may not want to meet the familey and thats okay by me :) I too wasn't raised by b parents how ever I know them You say your adoption wasn't normal,,,my sisters wasn't normal I can't find a paper trail I know of a way to get paper work but I need my adopted sisters help seems she has part of the vital information I have the other part, with out the 2 parts together the information will never be obtained please contact me at cstclai@aol.com I look forward to talking with you soon

Hey Bremo, Thanks for offering ur help :) in Va to get birth records the Judge has to aprove it since Cathy saids it wasn't like a normal adoption, one place she could get her information is the hospital where she was born but then she would need her DOB and birth mothers last name. In Va that seems to be the only way around the courts.I got my birth record befor this law was passed and my information doesn't match :( Im not one to give up easy I'll keep searching the WWW and hope she's looking too.My sister may not know she was adopted or gave up thinking no one even gave her a second thought grrr I hope she didn't feel that way Hope this helped Cathy good luck on your search May you find your answers.Check back soon Have a great day

Hey Breno,,,,Carol again :),,,I ordered the show where I saw my Sister had 10 people look at it and all agreed We sure look alot alike I researched the show and found it was done in 98 or 99 in Chicago IL she had 2 children one was a gurl about 6 or 7 and a younger child with blond hair thought it was a boy but after looking again I'm not sure but that child wasn't more then 2 didn't have any information about her she didn't have to sign any type of release and didn't seem to be paying attion to the camera man Maybe we just look alike Maybe the one I spoke to truly isn't my sister Maybe I do need proff of this befor I give up The thought of giving up makes my heart hurt I know I need her information to go with mine or the proff we will never have Not sure how much of mine is truth I so badly want to know when the real DOB is Why is this adoption thing such a big deal secrt that no one is too know as if it's taboo or some thing Makes me think there's more to it then just an adoption this one seems to have been done under the table and my lawyer saids if I go too far and I'm right some one could go to jail I am not going there not for the birth parents but her adopted parents I don't want to bring any hard ship to them or hurt my sister in any way even if it means never getting my answers I have never been faced with any thing like this and don't know the right way to go about it I just can't dig in some area's I think she has a right to know she has a siter who's looked for her over 20 yrs I think she has a right to know me or not I think of the fun we could have on line together and how hard this must of been for her she makes me smile when I think of her Where ever she is today I hope with all my heart she's having a great day Hope u get your pc back soon Have a most pleasent day :)

Hey Cathy,,,I have to do some research in Richmond Court House and libary,,,,,I'm looking in the same month and year as you are I'll be glad to search information for you.Thinking you may not live in the area I'd be happy to help you if I can :) and there's Search Angles like Breno Va is a hard State to get information from but there's more then one way to skin a cat :) contact me if you like at kidof31660@aol.com I check my mail daily Take care ,,,good luck,,, have a great day