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If you are ever looking me up here at adoption.com, I just want you to know that I love you very very much. And I have decided to find my birthfamily because I need to find answers about myself now. I believe in my heart that now that I am eighteen, I can love ALL my parents. Adoptive and birth alike. If given the opportunity that is. Dad, you have always been there for me no matter what...no one could ever replace your love. Mom, you too have always been there for me and I am very grateful for having a birthmother that loved me enough to become your daughter. So no matter what happens in my self discovery along the way....You will always be my Mom and Dad. I will love you forevermore. I just want the opportunity of atleast meeting my birthmother/birthfather. And tell her/him that I am a pretty good kid, that I am healthy and happy and hopefully going to Columbia! Ok, now your both probably scared! Just kidding, it's $42,000 a year! But what if I'm accepted? lol....Thanks and Love,Jess...born: 3/17/87 femaleAltus, AFB, Oklahomalooking for birthmother, birthfather
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Jess, that was absolutely beautiful! I do hope you get the support of your parents -- I am 33 and still don't. I DENIED myself my rights, questioned whether I was related to the man I wanted to marry, and have spent my life trying to be the best DAUGHTER I could by protecting them . . . but by denying myself I have become unhappy and that is not good for anyone. Our search has nothing to do with our parents -- they just don't understand that we have to find ourselves. I hope you stick with us here, you can read my story at:[url="http://forums.adoption.com/showthread.php?t=186787"]http://forums.adoption.com/showthread.php?t=186787[/url] And if your parents are out here I would LOVE for them to read it as well. I look forward to hearing more from you. PM me if there's anything I can do for you.