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I never thought I would type this as I am so extra, extra careful. I am a 2 weeks late. The only other time I was late was when I was pregnant with my bdaughter. After I had her I decided I did not want any more kids. I have been with my boyfriend now for 5 years. We spilt up and I stopped taking the pill for about a year. We are now back together and planning on getting married.....:) He is much older than me and does not want kids either. We had sex but were extra careful I can not imagne that I would be pregnant. I am praying that I am late because all the meds I have been on after a reccent car accident. If I am pregnant it would literally wreck me. He is very anti-abortion, but I don't think I could do another adoption and simply don't want to parent. I dont know what to do.........:(
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I still haven't gotten my period. But I am waiting to take a test. I have been on tons of drugs since I got in my car accident on the 22nd so I am hoping maybe that threw me off. In my mind though I have decided if I am pregnant I will place again. I have relized in the past few years even though I said that didn't have the money to parent or because my bdaughters dad was jerk those were the reasons I have since decided I have never really wanted to be a mom. How would you feel if you were an adoptee and your bmom told you that? Is that a horrible reason for placing? Simply because I am not mom material?? But wouldn't it be better that I at least gave them life instead of an abortion? I don't know how to feel........:confused:
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Actually I think it's the best reason for placing. Other reasons - financial, social, etc. are external and subject to change. Only you in your heart understand what is within and beyond your abilities.
To know and respect your own limits - along with where and when you can expand them - is so valuable. So many do not.
JMHO
Regina
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