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:( My exhusband vol. gave up rights to our dd, who was 5 at the time, now she is 10. My husband adopted her at the time rights were gave up. My ex remarried and has a 3 year old daughter by his current wife(which is current wife also has a 10 YO daughter by her ex). We all live in the same town. Here is what has been going on...He and his wife has put a birthday announcement in our local paper every year for their 3 yo and a birth announcement when she was born. EACH time they have listed my dd as a sister to THEIR dd! I have went to the newspaper everytime and had them run ANOTHER ad for there childs birthday announcement and omit my dd's name and such, but of course it is really to late, because everyone in town has seen it already. HOWEVER, ex's wife had never NOT ONCE put a birthday announcement in the paper for HER OTHER dd, I ALWAYS check around her bday. They also went as far as taking the other dd out of the school she has went to for 4 years and LIE to my schools principal and staff and enrolled HER dd in MY dd's school(they are the same age and grade!) I had to take it to the superintendents office and they did a home visit and found that NO, they did not live in MY school district and they pulled the lil girl out and put her back to her old school. They (ex and his wife) has ALSO told NUMEROUS people (that they think I dont know) that "I" just dont let him see my dd and that he sends me child support and I refuse it!!! I have had people come up to me at my business and get pretty "Matter-Of-Fact" with me about the LIES that he told them, they are MAD AT ME for doing such a thing, until I have to tell them the whole story about him giving up his rights and ...ect...He and his wife has tormented me and my family for 5 years. My dd doesnt want ANYTHING to do with him, she doesnt even want associated with him and he keeps putting things like this PUBLIC and we are SO TIRED of it all. Do I have ANY RIGHTS to do ANYTHING about the stuff that he is doing?Please helpT
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I would hire a lawyer or at the very least go to your local police dept. to file a complaint.
If he has NO legal rights at all, then in the eyes of the law he cannot disclose public information regarding a minor child who is not legally his.
If you have other incidences as well, it can be seen as harrassment or stalking, and I'm sure your state has laws regarding this. Take your ppwk to the police dept. and see what they have to say.
Hopefully someone else here will have more to offer you!
Ok, I know this is easier said than done and I agree with the legal suggestions, as well. I am dealing with a similar problem in that it entails lies, lies and more lies (I adopted my stepdaughter's baby and she has told everyone who will listen lies about me). My advice would be to completely not give any attention to any of his antics. I know this may be a difficult thing in a small town, but it is obvious he is trying to get much needed attention. If you give him absolutely none, then maybe he will stop. As for others who ask, you can always play dumb and act sympathetic for his mental condition. Please don't let this crazy man steal your happiness. Then he would be succeeding in his goal. Good luck!