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I hope i'm not pregnant but sadly I've a feel that i'm very likely, pregnant. I've used the kit last week but was negative. Decided to go the the docs the day after to verify it. I hope it's good news for me, not even sure if they can even find out accurate results. :(I'm scared and terrified, confused and sad. This guy and me, we've barely been 2 mths together. Known each other for like 3 mths? I don't really love him exactly, which is horrible! But he's been rather supportive when i told him i might be pregnant, probably bcos his parents would want him to get married soon. He, 26. Me, 22, NOT ready.I'm scared... I'm really scared. I dunno how my parents, relatives, colleagues and friends will react or treat me. I'm those kinda "good and reserved girl", and I can't imagine what they'd think of me and all, esp I'm living in this very conservative and traditional kinda place. I'm scared ... I dunno what to do ... Sighz....I just need someone to talk to... Before even going to docs, how do you know if you're pregnant? Apart from missed menses, was it based on feelings? God, please, Please help me.
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i knew pretty much instantly when i was pregnant. i'm on my fifth week, and i simply felt it at two weeks. then again, i did also have a scare before this, but it was different. i can't explain it, really.the first thing you need to do is simply calm down and wait for the results from the doctor. there's no point in driving yourself insane with worry before you know. once you do know, if you find out you are pregnant, there's a lot to think about, and a lot to go over. i'm still trying, and it's hard. my family's pretty conservative, too, and i've always been considered the responsible one in my family, so it was kind of a shock to them.what i mean is, i kind of have an idea what you're going through. so if you ever just need to talk, just send me a message.good luck to you.-nina
Thanks hun... Skipped the doc's visit today cos i bled today, not sure if it's menses though. What i fear is it might be pregnancy bleeding. I'm not very sure though... Any idea what pregnancy bleeding is about? I think I'll try the kit or visit the doc's again once it clears up.. I dunno...
Your best bet is simply to go to the doctor. I was only about 5 weeks pregnant, and I had a miscarriage last night. It seemed like my period, but since i knew i was pregnant, i had to go to the ER. Also, it was pretty painful. The problem is that sometimes they have to go in and finish cleaning everything out, if your body does not get rid of it all. So if your period seems too light or somewhat different from normal, I would go to the doctor and make sure everything's ok.-nina
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