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I am writing with a heavy heart today. Two weeks ago Monday I had an ectopic pregnancy removed two weeks on Monday. I am really hurting and need help through this. Any letters would help right now.
How this applies to adoption. We have a open adoption with our son's bmom. I was wondering am I expected to let her know about this. I really want to keep it here right now. I really do not need her to fawn all over me the way she would. Please help me through this.
Thank You
Anina :confused:
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I'm a birthmother who is going through an ectopic pregnancy now. My D&C is scheduled for next week.
What this has to do with adoption: almost 8 years ago I chose adoption for my first son, and I have an open relationship with his parents. I would not expect the mother to confide such personal issues with me - especially so soon after. Wait until your emotions are settled and you can see clearly again. Then you can decide if it's right to share with her.
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Anina,
I'm sorry that you are going through this right now. I agree with Doyle that sometimes it's best to wait until emotions have settled before confiding private issues. I think it is wonderful though that the bmom would fawn over you. Sounds like you two have a positive relationship. Maybe you just need your mom (is she around) right now. Or maybe you just need to vegitate and have a good cry. Take care of yourself any way you see fit!
Lynard1210