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First for the back up info, I'm a Sophomore in a Charter School, also an Honor student. But the point, I'm 2 weeks pregnant, usually my period is due by now, I took the test, and my heart stopped! The rubbers on my boyfriend broke when we were doing it. He thinks I should drop out of school and keep the baby, becuase I'm finacially fit and would make a 'Great Mother'. Quite frankly, I'm not much of a mother person, and just becuase my mom and dad bring home a total of $950,000 a year does not comfort me. Both my mom and dad are dentists, they do surgical stuff and all that good stuff for your mouth. My boyfriend, by the way, his name is Antonio (some name eh?) really wants me to have the baby. He's all crazy about children. Which makes me think of breaking up with him for what he did to me. My parents would go clinacly insane if they found out that I'm pregnant! They always told me not to have children, which is why I'm an only child. I'm not that fond of children, nor babies, they just annoy me. So I'm sorta thinking of having an abortion...
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That breaks my heart.I really wish you would consider making an adoption plan and giving this precious little life a chance at life......
I am so thankful that so many women choose adoption.Perhaps you will reconsider.Who knows....maybe the baby growing inside of you will be a hero someday....
Hm... it really doesn't mean any more to me than feces.There is no reason for anyone to be born into a world as a mistake! Also the adoption, it's just not really worth it, to me atleast to go through all that pain and suffering, and since I'm a rather little person, all the ripping and fleash pouring out. I don't see the poing in having a new person born into the world to be adopted when another person is born into the world awaiting to be adoped. Thats just a huge waste of space. Right now I have a mess inside, I just need it, vaccumed out. Then I'd have my tubes tied, simple as that. The thing that doesn't even have a soul or brain inside me will just wither and die. I'm probably gonna get my tubes tied afterwards and never tell my parents what happened.
I am just a bit curious as to why you came to an adoption website to post if adoption isn't even a possible option for you?
I am sorry that you are in a scary and nerve-wracking position right now. I hope that you will take the time to consider all your options and to talk with your boyfriend more.
My beautiful daughter is adopted and I can tell you she is NOT a mistake. She is also NOT a waste of space.
You have said some hurtful things about adoptees. I hope that you find some support and comfort during this time and I hope you find it here at this site. I just also hope that you can speak with a little more sensitivity and respect considering you are posting on a site where many adoptees, birthparents and adoptive parents read and post.
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