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OK, I know this is a bit off topic from the usual discussions, but I'm starting to get worried (seeing puberty in the not-too-distant future???).
My 7-yr-old (8 next month) has serious body odor. It was awful this summer when the girls first arrived, so we switched them to soy milk and soy yogurt. They also had baths every other night and a wash cloth under the arms in the morning.
Well this morning I put her in the tub to clean up after wetting the bed (not a dry night since they arrived in June--ugh!), and told her to wash under her arms, too, since SHE told me she was "stinky" last night when putting on her PJs. Sure enough, her washcloth reeked this morning when she was finished.
Is this "normal?" Is it an ethnicity thing? Or maybe a health thing (lacking a particular vitamin or allergic to something)? She's very tiny (only 25th percentile for height and weight), and there's no other pubertal development.
The girls are Hispanic (Puerto Rican), but the oldest looks like she has African/Caribbean ancestry. The middle girl looks almost caucasian (with fine, loosely curled dark brown hair). The youngest is a blend (looks like she's a twin of both sisters even though they don't look that much alike, if that makes sense).
I developed late (bra at 12 or 13, period at 14), so I can't use my own experience as a gauge. :o
Thanks for any info.
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I think folks (meaning scientists etc) need to dig deeper than the surface. it's easy to see this difference and make the assumption that it's racial. Of course it depends on how they defined racial groups, and a number of other factors. Hopefully folks are looking into this across the board rise in early puberty and asking what we can do to stem the tide. I can't imagine that early puberty is good for anyone.
back in my childhood (the 1960s and 1970s) there was always one child in class who developed early. In 4th grade we had one child had breasts. The rest of us were quite slow to develop. I know my mom bought be a training bra in 6th grade. we both giggled and I put it in my drawer for "when I needed it", which was over a year later, lol. only one girl wore a bra in my 6th grade class. Fast forward to the 1990s and 2000s and I'm visiting elementary schools, stopping in 4th and 5th grade classes. I ask the teachers "what the @#!!, these kids look like 8th graders!". They all comment that kids are developing earlier these days. these girls were wearing real bras with cups, not the little stretchy things. quite a shock. I used to think it was all the hormones in meat and dairy products, but I'm thinking it's a much more complex cocktail of environmental things, including foods. Not sure what can be done to stop it, but we're dancing around trying to do so. we'll see when dd's older...
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whoownsthis
I'd be curious to know if Sleeplvr grew up in an agricultural area or near factories or nuclear plants? Having all of your friends begin wearing deodorant at 7 or 8 seems a bit young. Then again, I'm just going by my own experience, but I don't think I started taking showers willingly until 11 or 12. I remember fighting it the summer I turned 11 (when my mom first told me that I NEEDED a shower :rolleyes: ), so I probably had to start wearing deodorant around the same time. Then again, I was a "late bloomer," so what do I know?! ;)
My little sister who is Seven already has problems with BO and we use deoderant/anit perspirant because it's sometimes that bad. My other sister who is 13 has extremely strong BO to where it smells like a skunk odor almost and she is AA and my other sister is biracial. I started sweating really bad in middle school and I was soooo self concious of it and we had tried tons of deoderant brands and even perscription strength deoderant and I would sweat to were it would leave stainds all the way down my shirt almost and it was a big social hinder on me and I don't think seven is too young for deoderant I mean I would rather have my sister use deoderant than have her friends tell her that she stinks or have it be a social problem like it was for me. It all depends on the persons's hormones like I had a slight hormonla imbalance, but luckily as I've gotten older my sweat glands seem to be calming and I don't sweat like I used to.
FH-LisaCA
my feeling is that while this looks "racial", it's actually environmental. AAs tend to live in areas with more chemical exposure, closer to agriculture in some areas like the south, etc. add all that up with all those other lovely things and you get a biological cocktail that is problematic at best. btw, the rates for whites are increasing as well, so puberty is happening earlier across the board. it's enough to be totally depressing. This is where a little info leads to a doc visit for antidepressants (or you can just drink the water for traces from other folks' drug use-sorry martha, threw that in just for you :evilgrin: ). What goes in must come out (okay, I'll stop :D).
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Time for deodorant. My 7 yo (I've had him 1 1/2 years), sweats alot. I noticed an odor near his room and thought it was the shoes and/or sneakers. He went to summer school and his teacher called me and said in so many words, that he's developing BO. He puts deodorant on every day and he's ok now.
I ended up buying some "natural" deodorant in the organic section of our grocery store. It has a minty scent and contains no aluminum-something, but it does contain "propylene glycol." I'm not sure what that is, but it doesn't sound good. It's probably what gives stick deodorant its stickiness.
I don't have her wear it everyday, just when she wears sweaters to school or I know she's going to be playing outdoors alot in her heavy winter coat. I haven't noticed the BO as much (even when she's not wearing the deodorant), so maybe it's just bacteria when she goes more than two days without a bath. ???
Eek, that doesn't sound good (the propylene glycol description).
OK, so my quest continues. I have found all kinds of natural products online that contain no aluminum, propylene glycol or triclosan: IndiuMagic (but I looked up Indium, the main ingredient, and it appears to be used as a metal alloy!); Alba Clear Enzyme in Lavendar or Mandarin Spice (or Aloe, scent-free...not sure what ingredients is has); and "Thai" salt crystal rock (in a push up plastic case so you don't have to hold it, you just wet it and roll it under your arm--no scent, supposedly dries quickly).
After looking at the ingredients of my own "Secret" deodorant and seeing the warning that anyone with kidney ailments shouldn't use it (yikes!), I've decided to "go natural," too. I just need to find something that works and will last long enough to be worth its price. ;)
Does anyone have any experience with these?
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Okay-- here's my 2 cents. Kids are stinky. I have a caucasian bio daughter who is two and a half. If she doesn't get a bath everyday she smells like a foot. (She sweats in her sleep and sucks her thumb, so even her room stinks in the morning.) When she has a bath everyday she doesn't smell. I asked a friend of mine about it and she said that one of her kids was the same way--- some kids are just stinky. Sure, it's definitely worth asking your ped about, but lots of kids (of all races) are developing earlier. Another one of my friends had to let her 7 yo daughter start shaving over the summer because she had so much underarm hair. Also, you may want to check that she's wiping properly when she uses the bathroom. When things are not in balance down there it can get stinky. And an option of what to use-- my mother in law doesn't use deodorant b/c she's scared of the breast cancer link, but has been using apple cidar vinegar under her arms for years. She read about it in some natural book-- a swipe on a cottonball in each pit. I have never, ever known her to smell bad... just a suggestion. Good luck!
whoownsthis
salt crystal rock (in a push up plastic case so you don't have to hold it, you just wet it and roll it under your arm--no scent, supposedly dries quickly). Does anyone have any experience with these?
Funny you should mention wiping. It's true that she needs work in that arena (she has hidden soiled diapers in the bottom of her laundry basket--grr!), but the BO smell clearly comes from her underarms because I have lifted her arm to see if that's what it was--whew! Ugh.
Underarm hair at 7 sounds like it could lead to premature bone development, which will end up with stunted growth (kids grow too fast then suddenly stop when the other kids start growing. This leaves them at under 5' typically.) There's a foundation that researches this: the Magic Foundation (wwwDOTmagicfoundationDOTorg).
I've noticed that my little sister age 7 has light underarm hair thats the same tone to her skin like its not like alot of hair just light little ones is this normal? Also me personally I use Dove deoderant and a prescription Aluminum Chlorid solution for my my underarms because I'm a heavy sweater and have tried everything even natural products and I have yet to find something that works so any ideas would be greatly appreciated.
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Hello
I have two daughters not biologically related. We've had both since they were infants so their diets are virtually the same. The oldest who is Asian didn't begin her period till age 13 but the youngest who is Pacific Islander began her's at 11. The younger is small build, not overweight at all so its not related to size, weight etc.
The younger girl also has much stronger body order than her older sister and needed deodorant at an earlier age.
I guess :) what I'm trying to say is I think its a unique thing to each child depending on their genetics :flower:
I think I'd buy deodorant not AP at such a young age. There are also deodorants, AP's made for teenagers.
I might still take them to the doctors though. If they smell like sulphur-ish, or like almonds, or like apples, take them right away as that is a medical problem. A guy that I had to work with (in an enclosed space no less) had horrible BO ever since he was a kid. He took multiple showers a day, etc. Went to the doc and found out that it was an endocrine problem (?) that could be fixed with a mild medication. All those years of suffering, even through high school, and that's all he needed to fix it. On the other hand, most of my friend's kids have been using deodorant since they were 7 or 8.