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I have a question regarding an open adoption. My AD, 11 has mixed feelings about going to a visit with her **/BD. The first meeting we set up after the adoption they never showed up to (gave a lam excuse - strung us along for 1 1/2 hours). We talked in therapy about this and the only reason she wants to go is if they were to die tomorrow she would want to go - we made a list of the good / bad of going. I need help - she is VERY confused and doesn't know if she should go on the visit or not. The ** keeps emailing me asking for a visit (by agreement its suppose to be once a year). Any suggestions or anyone been in this position before?
Thank you.
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