adoptee born 06/26/1972 searching bmom

I am trying to contact my Birth Mother here is what I know:Just wanted to update this info: Name: Janet Christine Trainor StairBirth Date:03/20/1952Married: Ralph StairLiving:Humble, Porter, Kingwood TX areaAge: 57 Job: Service Dept Planet Dodge Humble TX Children: Nathan Stair- January 5, 1982 approxAge:27 Joshua Stair June 15, 1987 Appox Age 22Her Parents: Bernard TrainorLorraine Trainor (deceased):( I was born in Joliet IL in 1972. Biological (Jan's Fiance) Elvin Harrison Shearer Jr.-(Deceased Oct 1972 Car Accident near Table Grove IL):( Thank youDenise

I have found out that Janet and Ralph Stair have moved to Hot Springs AR. Everything else in the post remains current. thanks

I found a listing for:JANET L STAIR 494 DUG HILL RD DRASCO, AR 72530 (870) 668-3845 NATHAN STAIR 26390A SORTERS RD PORTER, TX 77365 It is possible that your brother stayed behind in TX while your bmom moved to AR. They where the only listings that came up for those names. I hope this helps I know there is no phone number for Nathan but since he is young it could be he just has a cell. Good luck keep us updated :)

Thank you very much for the information. It is greatly appreciated. Denise

I have located some information that might be helpful. I am not sure how you found out they moved to Arkansas but I have information located information that lists the following: Janet Christine & Ralph Herman Stair 707 Timberline Circle Kingwood Texas 77339 (281) 312-6393 Let me know if this helps. Rebecca

I was googleing my dad's name and came up to this forum. My dad is Ralph Stair and Jan is his wife. I do know they are in Hot Springs Ak but dont know anything else. I could try to get some more info if your still needing it. My dad left us when I was 2 In 1972. I think that is when Jan and him got together and moved to Texas. How did you find out who your biological father was? My dad has born many children and been estranged from them just makes me wander. Anyway, get back with me if you would like and I will try to get more info, my dads sister lives near me and might know some contact info. Andrea Stair Boyd

Its been a while since I have been on here because I do now have info on the family. Jan refuses to see me and from what I have found out she is an entirely disagreeable person. I am in contact with her sister but she doesn't talk to her either. I have known about my biological father since I was a child. I think our biological parents hooked up in 1980 or so. I was born in 1972 and Jan and my biological father were engaged to get married. Since they were both in college when she got pregnant her mother pretty much forced her to give me up. My biological father didnt want to but he went along with it. I was adopted at 3 days old and had wonderful parents. My biological father wanted to get me back before the adoption was finalized but he was killed in a car accident in Oct 1972 so I never knew about that until I was older. My parents were friends with my biological father's family as they were neighbors (this part of the story is purely coincidental and a very long story) I guess Jan and Ralph were lucky to find each other because I am sure it rare such uncaring people could be married for over thirty years. They have two sons that Jan's sister tells me are very messed up. The older one Josh I guess was busted for selling drugs and the younger Nathan lives with them and is emotionally distrurbed. Maybe we are lucky without them all. thanks for replying.Denise Aldridge

So true about them both. Im still abit leary because my mom told me that my dad, Ralph was found cheating with Jan and this is why she divorced him in 1972. They were together ever since. I bet the other kids are disturbed. I went for a visit when I was 12 to Texas and got to spend the weekend with them. My dad was very controlling and abusive. I was scared to death. Alot of drinking and fighting went on that weekend. My older brother still has contact and actually just came back from vacation from staying with them for a visit in AK. From what he says dad is still the same abusive person. Im so glad that you had a good life and was happy. I also glad to have talked to you on here.