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About

Robert

Age: 32

Ethnicity: Asian

Religion: Muslim

Darrell

Age: 42

Ethnicity: White

Religion: Christian

Preferences for a child

Age: Newborn to 1 year of age, 1 to 3 years of age

Gender: Either

Race/Ethnicity: All

Special Needs: Open to discussion, Mild or medically correctable, Alcohol exposed, Smoking exposed, Drug exposed, Emotional/mental disorders in family, Emotional/mental disorder in child, Blindness, Deafness

Basic Info
Robert

Age: 32

Ethnicity: Asian

Religion: Muslim

Darrell

Age: 42

Ethnicity: White

Religion: Christian

Denomination: Baptist

Work & Education
Robert

Education: Masters

Profession: Special Education Teacher

Darrell

Education: Masters

Profession: Hospital Lab Superviser/ Clinical Scientist

Post-Adoption Relationship

Open (Open to contact, phone calls, in person visits before adoption. Sharing photos and letters after placement. Visits at neutral location after adoption, etc.). If you want a more closed adoption, we would honor that request as well.

Semi Open (open to an in-person visit before adoption placement, phone, email, sharing pic/letters after placement

Closed (no contact after placement)

Environment

Country: USA

State: California

Parent Relationship: Married

Parent Neighborhood: Coastal

Parent Years Together: 5 to 10 years

Parent Residency: House

Parent Pets: 1 dogs

Children At Home: No children

Sexual Orientation: Same-sex parents

Preferences for a child

Age: Newborn to 1 year of age, 1 to 3 years of age

Gender: Either

Multiple Children: All

Race/Ethnicity: All

Special Needs: Open to discussion, Mild or medically correctable, Alcohol exposed, Smoking exposed, Drug exposed, Emotional/mental disorders in family, Emotional/mental disorder in child, Blindness, Deafness

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Adoption Service Provider

Adoption Connection, CA

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Our Life
At the victorian christmas faire pretending to travel through time.
At the victorian christmas faire pretending to travel through time.
Making food for homeless people.
Making food for homeless people.
We serve  at the homeless kitchen.
We serve at the homeless kitchen.
We took a cooking class in Italy because we both like to cook.
We took a cooking class in Italy because we both like to cook.
In Machu Picchu
In Machu Picchu
Our Home
Out for a morning run with our dogs. (one dog has passed since this picture).
Out for a morning run with our dogs. (one dog has passed since this pi...
Our home. We like it!
Our home. We like it!
Robert (how Darrell sees him)
Robert is a kind and loving person.  Robert can always be seen in a position where he serves others and gives them a warm welcome. Robert es una persona amable y cariñosa.  Robert siempre se muestra servicial y acogedor con los demás.
Robert is a kind and loving person. Robert can always be seen in a po...
He spends his time immersed in books, from philosophy to science-fiction, history, religion and, of course, manga! His passion for reading keeps the conversations interesting and fun.
He spends his time immersed in books, from philosophy to science-ficti...
I admire Robert’s patience, whether he’s teaching his students or spending time with his nieces. He truly knows how to connect with kids both as a loving uncle and a caring teache
I admire Robert’s patience, whether he’s teaching his students or spen...
Robert's playful humor and quirky personality hide a passionate intellect and a deep love for his family, making him a perfect husband and future dad.
Robert's playful humor and quirky personality hide a passionate intell...
I feel so lucky to be married to someone as kind, funny, and thoughtful as Robert. There’s no one I’d rather share my life with.
I feel so lucky to be married to someone as kind, funny, and thoughtfu...
Darrell (how Robert sees him)
Darrell is always seeking new adventures, from backpacking through the stunning mountains of California to scuba diving beneath the glaciers of Iceland.
Darrell is always seeking new adventures, from backpacking through the...
Darrell makes our house a home with his hard work, garden magic, and adventures with our (not so!) little cuddly dog, Cypher.
Darrell makes our house a home with his hard work, garden magic, and a...
My nieces adore him! Darrell loves baking cookies with our nieces, getting pumpkins for jack o’ lanterns and just hanging out.
My nieces adore him! Darrell loves baking cookies with our nieces, get...
Darrell loves science and works at a hospital laboratory and blood bank to help keep people healthy.
Darrell loves science and works at a hospital laboratory and blood ban...
Darrell mixes science and sweetness in the kitchen, baking cookies with my nieces and creating unforgettable experiences like when they asked us to make mooncakes!
Darrell mixes science and sweetness in the kitchen, baking cookies wit...
Our Family
Our nieces are a big part of our lives we take them to festivals like the pirate festival in our hometown.
Our nieces are a big part of our lives we take them to festivals like...
We also of course bake cookies with them. We made sugar plum cookies with plums they picked for us.
We also of course bake cookies with them. We made sugar plum cookies w...
Roberts nieces and nephews love him.
Roberts nieces and nephews love him.
Every year we go to the beach with Darrell's family at his 90 year old Grandm's house. Everyone comes its like a little family reunion.
Every year we go to the beach with Darrell's family at his 90 year old...
Roberts family all lives in our hometown and includes lots of aunties, uncles, and cousins.
Roberts family all lives in our hometown and includes lots of aunties,...
This is part of Roberts family at Thanksgiving. Sometimes its difficult to get a picture of them all together!
This is part of Roberts family at Thanksgiving. Sometimes its difficul...

Letter

On the mosaic steps in our town.
Our Family Journey

We are Robert and Darrell, and we have been on a heartfelt journey to start our family for nearly four years.


Hello! We are Robert and Darrell, and we have been on a heartfelt journey to start our family for nearly four years. After serving as emergency foster parents in 2020 for two placements newborn infants, we decided to pursue an open-adoption. We live in Robert's hometown of Vallejo, California, where he is surrounded by a loving network of cousins, uncles, aunties, and grandparents. Our blue, two-story house overlooks the waterfront in a quiet and friendly neighborhood, complete with several parks. Vallejo boasts mild summers and refreshing, chilly winters. We are actively involved in our church where we got married which is full of welcoming, wonderful people. Robert served on the Board of Stewards, volunteers at the welcome table, and is often helping wherever needed and Darrell volunteer...

Hello! We are Robert and Darrell, and we have been on a heartfelt journey to start our family for nearly four years. After serving as emergency foster parents in 2020 for two placements newborn infants, we decided to pursue an open-adoption. We live in Robert's hometown of Vallejo, California, where he is surrounded by a loving network of cousins, uncles, aunties, and grandparents. Our blue, two-story house overlooks the waterfront in a quiet and friendly neighborhood, complete with several parks. Vallejo boasts mild summers and refreshing, chilly winters. We are actively involved in our church where we got married which is full of welcoming, wonderful people. Robert served on the Board of Stewards, volunteers at the welcome table, and is often helping wherever needed and Darrell volunteers by making coffee and is also a go to person for whatever is needed around the church.
Hola! Somos Robert y Darrell, y hemos estado en un viaje sincero para formar nuestra familia durante casi cuatro años. Después de servir como padres de acogida de emergencia en 2020 para dos bebés recién nacidos, decidimos buscar una adopción abierta. Vivimos en la ciudad natal de Robert, Vallejo, California, donde está rodeado de una red amorosa de primos, tíos, tías y abuelos. Nuestra casa azul de dos pisos tiene vista a la costa en un vecindario tranquilo y amigable, con varios parques. Vallejo cuenta con veranos suaves e inviernos refrescantes y fríos. Participamos activamente en nuestra iglesia donde nos casamos, que está llena de gente acogedora y maravillosa. Robert sirvió en la Junta de Administradores, es voluntario en la mesa de bienvenida y, a menudo, ayuda donde sea necesario, y Darrell es voluntario preparando café y también es una persona a la que recurrir para cualquier necesidad en la iglesia.

A Love Story

One of our dreams has been to become parents, and we are excited to adopt.


Our home.
Our love story began in a coffee shop, where what we thought would be a short date turned into an evening of deep conversation. Before we knew it, we had fallen in love and have been happily married for almost six years. One of our dreams is to become parents, and we are excited to adopt and share the overflowing love we have with a newborn baby. We thrive on serving others, both through our professional work and community volunteering. As homebodies at heart, we enjoy reading, spending time with family, and visiting local festivals. Our aim is to create a home that feels welcoming to everyone.Nuestra historia de amor comenzó en una cafetería, donde lo que pensamos que sería una cita corta se convirtió en una noche de conversación profunda. Antes de que nos diéramos cuenta, nos habíamos enamorado y hemos estado felizmente casados ​​durante casi seis años. Uno de nuestros sueños es ser padres y estamos emocionados de adoptar y compartir el amor desbordante que tenemos con un bebé recién nacido. Nos encanta servir a los demás, tanto a través de nuestro trabajo profesional como del voluntariado comunitario. Como personas hogareñas de corazón, disfrutamos de leer, pasar tiempo con la familia y visitar festivales locales. Nuestro objetivo es crear un hogar que sea acogedor para todos.
Our life with Cypher

Cypher brings so much joy into our lives and is a cherished member of our family.


Cypher and and our old dog Bishop
We also have a lively dog named Cypher, a rescue pup full of energy who loves to run with us. We initially adopted two dogs, but tragically lost one last year. Cypher brings so much joy into our lives and is a cherished member of our family. Robert works as a Special education teacher, dedicated to helping children with learning disabilities reach their full potential. He teaches in a low-income school district and is passionate about being a voice for his students. Darrell serves as a lab supervisor in a hospital and as a clinical lab scientist, making a difference in people's health through science.
También tenemos un perro vivaz llamado Cypher, un cachorro rescatado lleno de energía al que le encanta correr con nosotros. Inicialmente adoptamos dos perros, pero trágicamente perdimos uno el año pasado. Cypher trae tanta alegría a nuestras vidas y es un miembro querido de nuestra familia. Robert trabaja como maestro de educación especial, dedicado a ayudar a los niños con discapacidades de aprendizaje a alcanzar su máximo potencial. Enseña en un distrito escolar de bajos ingresos y le apasiona ser la voz de sus estudiantes. Darrell se desempeña como supervisor de laboratorio en un hospital y como científico de laboratorio clínico, marcando una diferencia en la salud de las personas a través de la ciencia.
A Welcoming Home

Our family is built on the foundations of love, kindness, and acceptance for all—and, of course, cookies!


Just us again
As we embark on this new chapter, we look forward to getting to know you better. We understand that this is a stressful time, and we want you to know that our home will be a welcoming place for everyone who enters. Our family is built on the foundations of love, kindness, and acceptance for all—and, of course, cookies!
A medida que nos embarcamos en este nuevo capítulo, esperamos conocerte mejor. Entendemos que este es un momento estresante y queremos que sepas que nuestro hogar será un lugar acogedor para todos los que ingresen. Nuestra familia está construida sobre los cimientos del amor, la amabilidad y la aceptación para todos, ¡y, por supuesto, galletas!
Post-Adoption Relationship

Open (Open to contact, phone calls, in person visits before adoption. Sharing photos and letters after placement. Visits at neutral location after adoption, etc.). If you want a more closed adoption, we would honor that request as well.

Semi Open (open to an in-person visit before adoption placement, phone, email, sharing pic/letters after placement

Closed (no contact after placement)

Environment

Country: USA

State: California

Parent Relationship: Married

Parent Neighborhood: Coastal

Parent Years Together: 5 to 10 years

Parent Residency: House

Parent Pets: 1 dogs

Children At Home: No children

Sexual Orientation: Same-sex parents

Favorites

Robert in 2020 going back to the classroom. He thinks he's a cool teacher with his utility belt(he's not!).
Darrell is a scientist in a hospital blood bank. He he likes helping people and science.
Our nieces hanging out with their uncles at the Pirate Festival!
We go to the Dickens fair almost every year. We are in the Time Machine.
Our nieces are great! This is the time we made sugar plum cookies with them out of the plums they picked themselves.
Every year we go to San Clemente to visit Darrell's 90 year old grandma and parents who live right on the beach. Every year is like a reunion!
Robert eating cookies.
Darrell Making cookies! We both love to cook but Darrell likes to bake more.

Recommendations

Shawna Murawski (Friend )

Darrell has been a friend of mine since high school. He has always been the responsible one of our group of friends. He has planned and paid for trips for us, planned birthday parties, Christmas get togethers, and has always helped me whenever I had questions about retirement. Darrell is also wonderful with kids! He has always been engaging and kind to my son. He even gifted him a college saving program. Darrell is patient, calm, and caring. Darrell’s husband, Robert, is a perfect match for him. Robert is a teacher like me and always talks about the amazing academic growth his students have made. Robert comes from a family with many nieces and nephews. They both plan interactive and educational activities for them. I think Darrell and Robert would make excellent parents

Shawna Murawski Endorsed Accepting, Loving, Friendly, Good at Baking

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Rainbow mountain in Peru

We just got back from Peru where Robert went to stury spanish. He is bilingual and Darrell is working on it.

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