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We have been through the ringer. Just had out meeting saying that we are being investigated again. They don't believe we are doing anything wrong. The bios keep calling... this time they say we spanked the kids. Their kids don't even need time outs they are that well behaved. I don't know how many more of these we can go through. I am beaten down!
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Hello I am sorry that you must endure all of this, but keep your spirits high, I think parent's will do almost anything to get thier children back even if its not in thier best interest. If you know that you are loving, caring and nurturing, then you should not worry. I belive that it is part of the protocal to follow all aligations..Enjoy what all your children bring you, never let anyone take that joy away...
While going through foster parent training I was told, "It isn't if there will be allegations about you it is when". Although this seems dreadfully scary it is also a commonplace. SW, judges, and lawyers in the system have heard every trick bio families, and sometimes foster children, have pulled. I too will keep you in my prayers. Remember you are not alone.
It sounds like the bios are trying to make it sound like foster care is not where their kids should be and this is an effort to get their children back. I'm sure that the sw, judge and everone involved will see this... I cannot image the stress that would go along with being investigated. I will pray for you and if you ever need to talk I'm here! (so are a lot of other wonderful people)
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