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At almost 11 months my CI notified me that they had found my birthmother.
The CI has only tried 1 time to call her. She left her a message on her answering machine saying that she is doing reseach on her maiden name.
She said now we will wait for her to call her back
who on earth would respond to a message like that ?
She said she wont try calling again until AFTER the holidays
Am I wrong to be upset ? Is there anything I can do ? I feel like my CI is only doing this when its convient for her
I have paid a lot of money and waited almost a year and now that she found her she doesnt seem to care.
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I also used a CI initially, and let's just say she didn't handle things, nor have the sense of urgency that I did. Luckily I did not spend lots of money. My birthmother "rejected" me initially, and I am convinced this would not have happened if I'd been able to locate her on my own. But that's just my personal experience...I know others that have had a very positive experience with their CI's. Funny you mention the holidays...my CI said it was their policy not to contact over the holiday season too. IMO, she should NOT have left a message on her answering machine...yikes!! I'm not sure if there's anything you can do...which is very unfortunate especially considering the $$$...just want to offer my empathy. This has got to be frustrating. Perhaps someone else knows what you can do in this situation?
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