Prayers urgently needed

Praying for you and hoping you finally have some closure soon. If the good news is what I have imagined in my head...maybe you can look past all this CRAP you've been through for so long and maybe as a gesture of kindness and hope for your son....you could also consider offering her updates and pictures for the future. As to rebuild....a relationsip that has gone totally off coarse and help bring it around to somethign that can really positively affect your son. I know that may seem impossible given such a long drawn out series of events and all the hurt caused by it. But I have to believe that deep down she was doing this because she did love her birthson and always will. Maybe she can finally build a healthy relationship.

Christie: We are thinking about you. I hope things progress smooth for you. AJ

Christie I am praying for you. Oh the laughter of children. Hold that dear to your heart. I will have my forum up all day at work waiting to hear from you.

Thinking of you today and may GOD give you strength to deal with any decision. 2007 will be a good year!!! GOD BLESS

Thanks everyone. I am having a hard time sleeping and it feels like my stomach is doing flip-flops. I'm afraid I'm going to throw up. I can't yet "go there" as far as any relationship with the bmom or even feelings about any of this - I don't even know how to feel right now. My lawyer said that her lawyer, (IF all of this is true), is in contempt for having held onto the information and failing to report it per judge's order. I told him I couldn't believe he even said that! I told him the lawyers, the birthmom, the judge have ALL been in contempt and have committed fraud and then turned around and made those charges against ME - and that he (my lawyer) needs to understand that not one thing is going to happen to any of her lawyers. He might as well give up the idea right now of filing anything against them - (not that he said he was). He confirmed that there was legal documentation which had been signed by the birthmom and he is going to see her lawyer today. I asked him - IF this is true - then is there any reason at all to go to court for a hearing? He said no. I told him my prediction is that the judge will force a hearing anyway. My lawyer responded that he would fight "tooth-and-nail" against it because there would be NO reason. (YAY! Go lawyer!) I'm rambling, I know. I'm trying so hard here to get through this - the latest in such a long adoption. I doubt I will ever feel completely "safe" - they have come back and back and back against us so many times. O.K. - rambling again so I will sign off. THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT!!!!!!!!!! Christie

Christie, I know you will let us all hear as soon as you know something. I am sending really positive thoughts (and hugs) your way. Josie

Christie, I am late finding this thread! I am praying things go well for you.

I am confused too.Your case has to be one of the most complicated and unreasonable case I have ever seen.I hope your tummy feels better and you can rest.I will pray for you too.

Thanks for hanging in here for me guys. I guess it was too good to be true. I just can't go on about it right now. Lawyers are haggling and here we are - again. It's too sad.

Oh no Christie! NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I don't know what to say. (((HUGS)))

I'm sorry Christie. We're here for you.

I also do not know what to say.When I listen to music and the words strick a chord with me I always remember them.I remember having this run through my head when we were in court listening to stupidity. The giant calls my name and he laughs at me.Time and time again he says you will never win.You can never win But the voice of truth tells me a different storyThe voice of truth says do not be afraidthe voice of truth says this is for my gloryand I will chose to listen and believe the voice of truth. I know it is tough to keep faith and stay strong and you get tired of hearing it,but we must do it because that is all we have. GOD BLESS

I still have a good feeling and am praying muchly for you. I'm here if you need me. Big hugs,Josie

daddysangel, I just go through listening to that song!I agree, even when it's tough, we have to keep our faith.Huge hugs Christie and I am truly sorry this hasn't ended yet.

Christie - We're still hanging in there with you! I just wish we could do more. I thought of you yesterday as I was talking to legislators, lobbyists, and lawyers regarding new adoption legislation in Indiana. I'm hoping your lawyer is able to get some things settled in fairness, and get this nonsense to stop!