Foster/adopt vs. domestic infant adoption

With foster/adopt we are all afraid we will lose the children after we've grown attached. But that doesn't make the children need us any less. There are many people on this forum who've been heartbroken when kids returned to their birth family. But most of them say the they are comfoted knowing that the child benefited from their love and nurturing for the time they were there. If you feel at all drawn to foster/adopt I would really encourage you to pursue it. As you must know, there are more than enough hopeful adoptive parents available and waiting through domestic private adoption. Keep the communication open and continue to pray, and you'll make the right decision for your family. Godd luck!