help with what to do next..

Might i suggest you checking if she has a myspace page.

Melissa, Thanks for the advise. Unfortunatly she doesn't. She does have a facebook page though but I can't get access to her page because of the network she is in. It is her college network and in order to access it you have to have an email with that college. Do you have any other suggestions? Again, thanks for the advise. Jaimee

Melissa, I did some further searching on myspace and did come up with a page for her. She looks so much like me. Even my boyfriend is amazed at how much so. I sent her a note letting her know that I loved her then, now and always. That was all I said. She didn't reply. That was before I found the myspace account and just did it thru the facebook message tool. I have some health info that is of extreme importance that I need to get to her. This is something that has come to light since finding her online. I, unfortunatly, don't know what to do. I love her so much, I want to know her, but I am so scared of rejection. Can you, or anyone, give me any suggestions. Thanks!

She doesn't know you as her mother, even though you are. You can't think like that for if you do you'll probably confuse her into rejection. I'd introduce yourself to her and tell her the medical information you have for her. I tell her you always thought of her and I'd leave it at that. Let her decide what she wants to do with all this new information. Reunions are very tricky, it's hard knowing exactly what to do because you can't be sure what the other person is thinking. Take your time and give her plenty of room is the best I can suggest for you. Good luck. bprice215

Is her name Kathleen Michelle Allen?