Help! Jealousy!

Ok, I'll try to make this short. The night my husband and I went on our first date, we clicked. I could tell right away there was something special there. So, that night, I told him about my DD. I'd placed her at birth, and she was almost 2yo by this point. Then, he told me about his DD, who was only 3 months at the time. His DD wasn't adopted, but being raised by her mother (and controlling grandparents) who all said he'd never be able to see her. Fast forward to Aug 2002. We get a phone call from his DD, who is now almost 14. My DH wasn't home (he's a truck driver) so I ask her to call back the next night. She calls and I spend 2 hours on the phone with her before DH gets home, and he talks to her another 2 hours. We've all built a good relationship, even the mother and grandmother welcomed us into his DD's life. Fast forward again to last Friday night. We drive almost 1,000 miles to attend her high school graduation. All went well, but I was in a mood. I couldn't figure out what my problem was, then it finally dawns on me. IT'S NOT FAIR! He has his daughter back in his life, but I'm still waiting for mine! :hissy: Don't get me wrong, I'm sooo happy for him, but these are the same feelings I got the night she called. I wouldn't say any of this to him, but I needed to vent. My daughter's 21, and she's finally consented to anonymous contact. I think I'm just going a little :hypno:crazy:hypno: waiting for that first letter. Thanks for letting me get this out!