child situation

Originally Posted By apple55@charternet.comHi im in the process of adopting a baby, be very careful with the decission you will make because if your friend gives you the baby then get all legal papers one would be permanent gardianship if your planning to keep the child or go to an agencie and get a home study done or you will be very hurt in the long run. Im friends with the babies birth mom and thought we did everything right,wrong we didnt know what we did was we trusted the court system too much and we are suffering now,did you read on the judge in Springfield Ma, look it up some how wwlp channel 22 an 40 have the story about the girl that was inprissioned for two hours! read that and youll understand why Im telling you BE CAREFUL!

Originally Posted By Sandy BrownCan you give me more info on the situation you had posted. I'm a daycare worker who has bonded with a little boy whose mother does not want him anymore so every day she beggs me to take him home. I know nothing about adoption. I am afraid she will change her mind 2or3 years down the road. brianandkatrina@centurytel.net Thanks!

Originally Posted By CarolMake sure she gives you at least temp.legal coustdy other wise you will have NO rights to that child at all and if you become attached to that child which you will i know. You will have no say whatsoever if the mother comes back for it. you know the love you have for your own children, you can also have that same love for that child. not only that after make a loving bond with that child that real parent can use that child aginst you to extort money and things from you.you are the one that will be hurt and so will the child if you do not make it legal, where you have some say so.

Originally Posted By CarolMake sure she gives you at least temp.legal coustdy other wise you will have NO rights to that child at all and if you become attached to that child which you will i know. You will have no say whatsoever if the mother comes back for it. you know the love you have for your own children, you can also have that same love for that child. not only that after make a loving bond with that child that real parent can use that child aginst you to extort money and things from you.you are the one that will be hurt and so will the child if you do not make it legal, where you have some say so.

Originally Posted By CarolMake sure she gives you at least temp.legal coustdy other wise you will have NO rights to that child at all and if you become attached to that child which you will i know. You will have no say whatsoever if the mother comes back for it. you know the love you have for your own children, you can also have that same love for that child. not only that after make a loving bond with that child that real parent can use that child aginst you to extort money and things from you.you are the one that will be hurt and so will the child if you do not make it legal, where you have some say so.