thread turned into "wanting birthmom to be pg again." yikes!

imho, this thread is too far gone. i closed it until i could read it more, i don't see anyone here. i'll look around for someone on yahoo, but if i can't find anyone, i'm going to delete it, and someone else can make the final say. i just think it got a little crazy, and it is too much to edit.

alright. where is everyone? some secret party i wasn't invited to????anyway....i can't find a soul around these parts. i deleted the thread. i wrote "until further review" on it....again, not knowing if i can really be the one to close it since i participated.and...crick, brandy, can i mod a thread where i participated in it BEFORE it went off topic and became out of line? i'm not sure. please clarify for me. thanks.also. i will make user notes and mod tracking notes once someone lets me know the final decision on this thread. thanks.

Sorry... I was "out to lunch" (literally!) when you IM'd me. Since you deleted the thread, I can't read it and give you my "expert" opinion, LOL!

Okay, I've read the thread now...:) As you know, we do try to avoid the mod/participation, but if something has to be done and you are it, then I'd rather you do it as opposed to letting something go. Sometimes it's unavoidable, and that is okay. I just don't want a habit made of it and only when situations like this come up when no one else is on. Obviously you would then no longer participate after you modded and if you had participated fully in a heated discussion, I wouldn't post a reminder/warning but just close until it can be opened again by someone else where they can then do the warning. In this thread, I would have just closed for now and not deleted. On the whole, we only delete threads where there is something legal/agd, truly unacceptable etc. A heated discussion generally just gets closed. I understand why you deleted though, and it's fine. Just for future reference.:) I've reopened with a reminder...if it needs to be closed due to them not posting respectfully, then close and that's it. Sorry I wasn't on! We were in a secret meeting discussing you.;)

lol! funny. thanks for the tips.