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We are going to be moving - hopefully this summer - to a larger house, same city.Our son will be 2.5 by then, and our current house is the only one he has ever known here (he came home at 6 months old). We may have the option of building on site.Any advice as to how to make the transition easier? OR, at his age, is it even a problem? If we build, would taking him often to the site help? Any words of "been there done that" would be extremely grateful. TIA! PJ
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I moved when my son was 20 months. We had been in one apartment from the time he came home at 8 1/2 months until we moved. He did fine, with a little trouble with early waking the first few days. I told him about it, but had him out of the apartment when the movers came and brought him back after I had unpacked some- we stayed at my parents the first night. There are some books about moving that would help with an older toddler- my son was too young but now at 26 months he does well with those kinds of books. I made him one about my surgery when he was 22 months and it seemed to help him be prepared.Good luck!
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I learned something interesting from a friend of mine on this. They moved when their daughter was about 4, and she had a fit about it---it turned out that she thought she'd have to leave all of her toys and things at the old house. My nephew did exactly the same thing when I moved----until I explained that all of the things he liked to play with at my house were coming, too. It's funny what they think about that would never occur to us.
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We are going to be moving - hopefully this summer - to a larger house, same city.Our son will be 2.5 by then, and our current house is the only one he has ever known here (he came home at 6 months old). We may have the option of building on site.Any advice as to how to make the transition easier? OR, at his age, is it even a problem? If we build, would taking him often to the site help? Any words of "been there done that" would be extremely grateful. TIA! PJ
We moved TWICE in 2 mos (our house sold quickly and unexpectedly and we hadn't bought a new one yet). My suggestions are to have his room be EXACTLY like it was before, as far as furniture placement, etc. In the temp house, we had no control, his new room was a different color than his old but we just played it up about how we were going to decorate it etc with his fave things...trucks and trains. make it sound exciting and a good thing!
We moved last year (within same town) when my girls were 33 months and almost 23 months. We talked about moving, they saw the boxes, we went to the new place when it was empty and they ran around. They were around on moving day and waited at the new place and watched the furniture and stuff arrive. The new place was so much bigger than our tiny condo, I think they were most excited about actually having room to move around and play. The hardest thing for them, I think, was not sharing a room anymore. In the new place, they each have their own room. My younger one took several days to realize this. Every nap and bedtime she kept going into her sister's room looking for her crib. We kept the old bedroom theme (more nursery-ish) for my youngest since she still had the crib at the time. For my oldest, we made a big deal out her getting a big girl bed (went from the toddler bed to a twin bed at the new house) and she was excited to get new bedding and decorate her room. For us, I think the fact they finally had room to run and play made the move a lot easier. When we drive past our old place, my oldest will still say "There's our old house."
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I learned something interesting from a friend of mine on this. They moved when their daughter was about 4, and she had a fit about it---it turned out that she thought she'd have to leave all of her toys and things at the old house. My nephew did exactly the same thing when I moved----until I explained that all of the things he liked to play with at my house were coming, too. It's funny what they think about that would never occur to us.
I just got my new issue of Parents this weekend and someone suggested making a "new" house from a moving box, using little jewelry boxes to simulate moving boxes and let the kids practice "moving" small toys and dolls into the play house while you talk about your real move. Seemed like sort of a good idea.