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Hello, My name is Susan Rodriguez and I am from Mesa, Az. I am 43 years and born In 1965 in Phoenix, Az during the time when Birthmoms kepted their pregancy a secret. I always dreamed of findng my birthmom and wished she would want to meet me. I have carried hole in my heart and life of not knowing where I came from. I am of hispanic descent and raised in a anglo family. I know quite a bit of info on birthmom and actually foud her sister back in 1983. So my birth-aunt has been friendly on the phone and at one time wanted to meet me. I did not contact her for 22 years but because od some help issues felt compelled to call. I asked again if she wanted to meet me and she replied with she had to think about it because it's a weird situation. I did not ask for or about birthmom all she told me was she had not spoke to my birthmom in some time. I wish I could get a lucky break. I don't understand at times why they are so afraid. I just hope someday my dream will come true. Thanks
Susan, I really don't have any advice for you. I don't understand why you just don't contact your bmom for yourself. I am sure if you found her sister, you can find her! Welcome to the forums!!!
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hi hon.i to am an adult adoptee.i think our birth familys are afraid of our questions we might ask and rejection that could happen.please just hang in there.when the time is right you will meet if its meant to be.i am new to this sight.how do you go about putting information about your adoption on this site.i am lost thank you for your time....marlene
I don't have any good advice for you..... but, I did want to tell you I know how you feel..... I found many of my birth sisters only they did not want to get to know me... I was sent back to my birth mom at age 16! by my adopted Mother cause she said I was to bad of a kid to have around anymore. My Adopted mom said," You ruined my Children's life for 5 years and you will not do it anymore'' So, she purchased a one way Greyhound bus ticket for me to go..... My birth mom did not want to see me and would not take me back....
Anyway, I wish you God speed!
God bless you!
Teri