Dating a male adoptee who wants to rush into things...

Hi everyone. Im dating someone who is a male adoptee (25). We met through mutual friends and had a lot of fun that day. On the day we met, he told me how his parents were in high school when they had him and his grandmother adopted him. I could tell that he still has a lot of resentment and anger towards his bparents. I see ways in which heҒs similar to other adoptees experiences. For example, I was very surprised when we later went on a double date w/ our friends and his bff from high school knew less about his parents than me. IҒm guessing he never fully told him all of the details. He also doesnt feel that close to his grandmother. At one point, he said that he grow up w/o a family and so he considers his friends his family. Yet, I also think heҒs a little different as well. After the first night we met, he told my friends that he wanted to marry me. After our first date, he was already trying to sleep with me. I kept having to tell him no and explain the reasons why, i.e., we barely know each other, no protection. Its as if he really wants to rush into something. I think heҒs a great guy, but Im really hesitant for this reason, plus he lives 1 ҽ hrs. away. Im not saying that I donҒt have my own set of commitment issues, but Im concerned that he doesnҒt really like me for me. Also, he may have an unrealistic idea of who I am or should be that I could never live up to. Any advice/personal experiences would help. This board has been very helpful already, but I noticed he was different in those aspects and wondered if it was common.