Request

I have a question....something I struggle with in here. In fact, it sets my blood to boiling. Why do some people - when posting on their particular situations re. bmoms - feel the need to quantify how many men she's had children by when it has no bearing on the problem? I see this a lot...quotes like "she's had 2 kids (by two different guys)". It's as if people have simply got to go out of their way to point that out. Then you read further down the page and they're asking a question about policy on some other issue. ??? In that case, why can't you simply say "she's had two children" and leave it at that and then ask the question your need to ask? Look at it this way. Does anyone in here state how many times they've been married before they go into detail with whatever their issue is? I'm willing to bet I'm not the only divorcee and I would point out that a lot of us have therefore had babies by more than one guy. See what I'm saying? Also, does anyone quanitfy how many different sexual partners they've had before they go into whatever their issue is? Because if we're going to be...oh I dunno...HONEST.... with ourselves.....chances are pretty darn good that most of us have had sex with more than one person. You know what that says about us? That we're human. It's none of my dang business how many adults some other adult has slept with. Who the frig am I? I know this isn't going to do any good but I'm asking it anyway. Please knock it off. It's humiliating and it's a slap in the face to women in general. If you're going to deliberately point out something like that when it has no bearing on the conversation, then you ought to have the guts to call a woman the name you're actually calling her without saying it. Please forgive me, but some things are just beneath the pale. Respectfully submitted,