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I'm not exactly sure what to do. I'm a Christian, or at least think I am, though I manage to sin over and over again even after asking for forgiveness. I'm divorced, already have 2 children, and am a full-time college student at a religious college (which is very conservative in it's views). My boyfriend and I recently had unprotected sex and I don't know results yet, but it may get me pregnant. He is a good man and said he would do the honorable thing if something happens. But I'm not quite sure how to process it in my head. I'm at a conservative school which is against premarital sex and can lead to being suspended or expelled, I could get dis-fellowshipped from church which could lead to losing the financial aid for my daughter to attend church school (her father is not christian so it is very important for her to go she loves Jesus and church), and I really don't know how his family or my family would process it. He said don't worry about it just find out for sure one way or another, but I can't help but worry about it. Any advice? I've thought about the morning after pill but have read that there's a chance it could act like a chemical abortion and I don't agree with abortion unless it's a dire circumstance, not neccessarily for convience.
Anyhow I just wanted to post this to see what people think would be best to do, I feel like I'm hiding from the world right now not knowing what the outcome is yet.
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I'm a Christian, or at least think I am, though I manage to sin over and over again even after asking for forgiveness.
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I agree with what the previous poster said. First step is to find out if you are in fact pregnant or not - after you know you can make plans.
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I would wait till you take the pregnancy test and then you will know if you have anything to worry about or not. I dont think that the PlanB pill causes a chemical abortion, i think it just prevents implantation. I'm not sure though but you have to take it in the first few days i'm pretty sure.
All christians sin over and over again, and that is why jesus died on the cross so we can be forgiven. Everyone needs forgiveness and the lord doesnt discriminate against you. Ask and you shall receive!! Do you believe everything happens for a reason??? i was 17 when i found out i was pregnant, my parents and family are pretty religious and i am definetly a religious person and i thought it was the end of the world. My boyfriend and i got married a year later, and are still together and my son is 7 years old. I thought, why is god doing this to me??? Why am I going through this?? Ends up, a few years later when i wanted more children, Now i cant have anymore. Something changed between then and now and we can no longer have children. And from then on i believe that i had my son at such a young age for that reason. I am soo thankful that god knows what he's doing and has a plan for all of his children. Wether or not we understand that plan at the time, he knows what's best. If you are pregnant, then it was meant to be and you will do what you see fit and if not, then that isnt his plan for you. Good luck, and i hope things turn out well for you. Rachel