Half-siblings... it's complicated

Something to think about: Would you want to be separated from your brother? Your siblings? The children are innocent of whatever the mother has done, their bond should not be foreceably broken because you don't want to upset your family unit. He IS her family too. A lot of people, adults, like to talk about how well-adjusted the adoptee is, but you can never know what the deep down secrets and wishes are. I cannot imagine not knowing as much about my bio-family as I possibly could. It is about identity, and where we come from. I am not trying to be preachy and snide, just wanted to give you something else to think about.:flower: