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Wicked cool. I haven`t met her yet but I think that we are going down that road. I`m really excited to see what she looks like, see her mannerisms and listen to her. I don`t have the burning desire to ask a million questions but i would like to get a sense of who she is. :banana:
If you are still looking, keep it up. It took me 22 years and it has finally happened.
If you are interested I know she`s from NB, she works in security, 5`0, named Jean with no other kids, her parents died no long ago and where in their mid to late 90s, she`s evidently got a strong character, loves animals and goes to church, love to sing, yeah...I could go on. I`m really happy now. I just can`t believe it. One last thing, and probably best of all, she doesn`t smoke or drink or do any drugs!!!
I`m going to take it slow but I just can`t believe it is happening to me.
Keep looking and you should find them:happydance:
~Stephen (my real name):thanks:
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Good luck Stephan, I got the courage to look seven years to late.(Bmother died of breast cancer before I could meet her, but I did get to meet two half brothers and see the resemblances in our faces and laughs. I didn't push myself on them, just let things flow. Finding out your medical history is a plus.
Have a safe trip!!!!:moped:
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Sad to say that I am and always will be me:grr: . After a few short conversations with my mother, I decided not to pursue the relation with her as I felt that we had nothing "real" in common and that we where so different that (being me:cowboy: ) I could not see any value in a relationship with her. I am happy to have completed this journey and feel better for having done it. I do not feel any sadness as I would have anticipated.
I met my father as well. They are not married and never where (he liked the ladies) but my birth mother gave me enough clues to put it together. I met him in person and even slept in his house. I ended our relationship as, again, me being me :grr: saw that we are very different people to the point that we clash (I clash with everything...let's say I am a little driven...which, by the way, I got from my adopted parents aka. mom and dad...thanks!).
So one more item (two really), checked off my bucket list. Next would be to see way more money in my pocket :D. I would encourage anyone who is somewhat realistic to complete this journey (I am sorry for you Booth65, I may have missed the opportunity as well had the laws not changed when they did). I don't feel as if my life has been altered in any real and meaningful way as a result of meeting them as I had lightly imagined, but at least I know what might have been.
I wish my biological parents and their children the best of luck and success in the world. For anyone still looking just keep at it. It may happen, it may not, you are still you and no parent will ever change that. Give yourself all the credit and criticism and save the fantasies for winning the 6/49.
This will be my last post as I have done what I needed to do. If anyone wants to reach out to me, that's another matter and I would be honoured to listen and communicate.
Good hunting!
