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Unfortunately Jennasmom1990 & Dpen decided to bash everyone on the thread and Brandy decided to ban. I support that with those two because they deliberately attacked everyone. They were no doubt spurred on by Janeytwo who pm'd both Brandy & I this afternoon with her disgust of us allowing this thread and the comments made. She is unable to separate out the personal feelings vs. the generalizations and bashing a group. Both Janey & Jennasmom brought up the fact that we asked them about a year ago why more bparents don't post and what we could do to help them etc. and how we just don't see how hurt they are by allowing these brutal attacks on them. (background)So I expect more from Janey's little group to say and do the same. If they do, just ban - Brandy has warned everyone on the thread and deleted the posts by Jenna, Dpen and anyone who responded (for thread flow).
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Well she can email me if she likes Kathy. No need to explain anything to her and this stuff is confidential. She knows she attacked everyone on that thread so that's all she needs to know.I'm sorry this all puts you in a difficult position so please don't feel the need to be a mediator. Brandy and I are more than willing to handle the backlash.
Just to update...Brandy and I are getting a lot of pm's on this stuff and I want to be sure if you are getting them and don't want to deal with it, to just forward them on.I am being accused right now of allowing abuse to continue and for STARTING it because I created the thread. That if anyone else created the thread, they'd be banned by now and this thread deleted.I don't care anymore because it's just ridiculous at this point. There are no attacks on bmoms as a group in this thread. Nor are there any attacks on adoptees. And there are no attacks on aparents from those participating the same way everyone else is. Saying I hate MY amom, bmom, etc. is not an attack on anyone in the triad and I'm so sick of trying to explain that to people who keep insisting they are being abused. So they can piss off. I'm not a trigger happy ban person but I might be today.
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