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Hi every one I would like your opinions on this I am not sure if I am posting this in the right place but here it goes.
Dear friend, I call you friend even though you gave birth to me as I believe that you are one of my bestest friends I will ever have even if we only took a glimpse of one another.
You let me have a life that you knew and thought was best for me even though it ripped you two and made you very sad and lonely for many years to come.
I would like to say that I have known about you since I was a small child and not once have I thought bad of you.
I always knew you had your reasons.
I know now that I have my own child that you didnt take what you did lightly and that it must have been the hardest decision you have ever made.
This is why I call you my ғfriend
Because you did what was best for me.
I often think of you and hope that your life turned out okay and that you are happy and I hope with all my heart you went on to have more children who love you.
I respect you so much as a person because what you did was amazing, I respect the lady (my mother) who brought me up to, I have been very blessed to have two women love me and care about me as much as you did.
You loved me so much the both of you that you shed silent tears.
I want to say thank you for bringing me into this world and thank you for being you.
So many times in my life I have wondered what you look like and I wonder if you wonder what I look like too
You will always have a place in my heart youԒre the woman who loved me unconditionally and loved me so much you even found me the best mother in the world to raise me.
Youre an amazing woman and if you are reading this where ever you please remember that I donҒt hate you but I respect you and love you it took two women to give me life, and I love you both.
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I think it is absolutely perfect. As an adoptee myself, that is exactly how I feel, and what I think, about my birthmother. A very special friend who made an incredible and difficult decision that gave me a wonderful life with a perfect family. I may never meet her, but I respect her tremendously. That is what your letter conveys.
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This is so beautiful. I am both an adoptee and a birthmother and I'm sure that if your birthmother ever has the chance to read this she will be very touched by it. I had the chance to meet my birthmother as well a few years ago and the first thing she asked me was "Do you hate me?" I have no doubt yours will be very relieved to hear that you don't!
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If she ever reads it, it will make her cry, but they will be good tears. I found my Birth mother and she was so happy to know I was OK and that was 50 years later. There is no right way to say what you said, but you have said it beautfully. After I met Birth mom, she told me her story about the adoption and the circumstances of my conception prompted the doctor to offer her an abortion. She refused and I am forever grateful.
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My son and I have been reunited. He tells me nearly the same message as your letter. I was lucky to have kept a journal during pregnancy and it explained our situation better than my memory is today. With the help of the journal he knows about my reasons and my feelings as a 17year old unwed girl. We are very happy now and have 31 years to catch up on. There are surely other bmoms reading your letter with great appreciation! Thanks!
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