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I'm starting a blog of DD for birthmom and would like to know what are somethings you'd like to know about your child that was adopted? When I ask my DD's birthmom she just tells me that it's my blog and I can put whatever I want and I don't need her input. So I'm stuck, I believe dd's birthmom is having a hard time emotionaly with this and it's been a hard emotional 2 years since the adoption was finalized from both our parts. I am trying to change how and what I do/say etc to make things better. I want to share dd's life with birthmom so I want to start this blog and would love to hear what others want to hear about or even don't want to hear about. I adopted my stepdaughter 2 years ago, birthmom was in dd's life reguraly until it was finalized, birthmom told us that she gave up and had no other choice but to have me adopt dd. DD was 5 at the time of adoption. Birthmom has 2 other daughters and I have 2 more daughters all younger than dd. We live in the same town.