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Hello,
I am getting to know my birth father (whom I still don't know how to call...), and I realized something very important: I have been in his life/mind for 27 years, since the day I was born untill now...while he has been in MY life, for only a couple of years!!
So I would apreciate any suggestions, on how to manage such a relationship...
To him, I am his first born daughter that was taken away from him and has come back into his life.
To me, that I grew up with a father (my mom's second husband), he is a man who's DNA I carry, but am not even sure what I feel about him...
Help!?
Well I'm a birth father who has not yet met my daughter. I just found out about her last year. I think about her everyday. My advice would be and I'm no expert but keep an open mind and try to get to know him. A good relationship with your birth father shouldn't take away from the father you grew up with. I hope that if I get the opportunity to meet my birth daughter she able to be upfront about hows she feeling. I'm not sure if thats the best way to go but those are my thoughts as a birthfather.
good luck!
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