Food issues and attachment??

Thank you. I have been on babycenter message boards for years and years. I have met one other mama on there with a kiddo who has FAS. She referred me over here! I am on a board there for delayed kids and while they are really nice and helpful, I don't feel like anyone really understands. Here, everyone has been so incredibly welcoming and understanding. I posted under the drug exposed babies and there are quite a few with FAS kiddos. My mom definitely doesn't get it. She thinks DD will just grow out of everything. My stepdad thinks all doctors are quacks and that every single one of them is just trying to rob us blind. He doesn't think there is anything wrong with her! I give up trying to get them to understand.