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Im VERY VERY VERY HURT!!!!! I just dont know what to do. I have been wanting to adopt into our family. I was scammed 2 times, and still dont knowhow n e one can hurt me like that.. Well, then we finally come along with a 22yr old teen who has a 17month old son. She was pregnant with Trippletts. She was on welfare n did not want the babies. We flew her to our home. She stayed, and then had the trippletts. We got an attorney and all. We got the beds, cribs, bassinetts, carseats, clothes galore, bottles everything....you can think of. Heck the crib is all up still the babies room is all up n ready. I hurt to see it, and i cant bare to put any of it away, because I know the Lord will find us another mom that is wanting there child to go to a good home... Now what happens, the Birthmom changed her mind. Left and kept all three of the babies. Oh I hurt sooo much you dont even know. I am married and i have 4 kids, and all my kids were ready n they got very hurt to. I can not have no more kids and we are ready to bring another child in our home. I am NOT rich, but my family is stable, and we do fine, the kids have all they need and more. I stay home and devote allll my time to our kids, and my husband works. and these agencies all they ask for is money money money. kids shouldnt have a price tag on them, its wrong, I just hurt and i really want a baby, toddler or a child...to adopt.age dont matter.... I pray all the time... god bless...
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I am sorry for what you and your family have been through. However, this forum is for young ladies who are struggling with an unplanned pregnancy and wanting support. Maybe if you cross post this to one of the adoptive parent support boards you will get more feedback and support. The general adoptive parent support board gets alot of traffic. Also, I think there is a board specifically for hopefull adoptive parents who have suffered a failed adoption. I'm sure you will find alot of support over there. I wish you the best of luck moving forward and hope you find your baby soon.
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I have moved this over to the Failed and Contested Adoption forum. Hopefully you will be able to get some support and guidance here.
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Im VERY VERY VERY HURT!!!!! I just dont know what to do. I have been wanting to adopt into our family. I was scammed 2 times, and still dont knowhow n e one can hurt me like that.. Well, then we finally come along with a 22yr old teen who has a 17month old son. She was pregnant with Trippletts. She was on welfare n did not want the babies. We flew her to our home. She stayed, and then had the trippletts. We got an attorney and all. We got the beds, cribs, bassinetts, carseats, clothes galore, bottles everything....you can think of. Heck the crib is all up still the babies room is all up n ready. I hurt to see it, and i cant bare to put any of it away, because I know the Lord will find us another mom that is wanting there child to go to a good home... Now what happens, the Birthmom changed her mind. Left and kept all three of the babies. Oh I hurt sooo much you dont even know. I am married and i have 4 kids, and all my kids were ready n they got very hurt to. I can not have no more kids and we are ready to bring another child in our home. I am NOT rich, but my family is stable, and we do fine, the kids have all they need and more. I stay home and devote allll my time to our kids, and my husband works. and these agencies all they ask for is money money money. kids shouldnt have a price tag on them, its wrong, I just hurt and i really want a baby, toddler or a child...to adopt.age dont matter.... I pray all the time... god bless...
If you genuinely don't care how old the child is, you should look into adopting from the state through foster care.
With the emom with triplets, it probably wasn't that she didn't want them, it was probably more that she was totally and utterly overwhelmed by the fact that she was pregnant with them (I think there probably isn't a mum out there, married or not, who wouldn't be overwhelmed if they found out they were having triplets) but when she actually saw them, she realised she couldn't place them for adoption. She may have been genuine about placing them before the birth but once a baby becomes reality, things are different.
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Im VERY VERY VERY HURT!!!!! I just dont know what to do. I have been wanting to adopt into our family. I was scammed 2 times, and still dont knowhow n e one can hurt me like that.. Well, then we finally come along with a 22yr old teen who has a 17month old son. She was pregnant with Trippletts. She was on welfare n did not want the babies. We flew her to our home. She stayed, and then had the trippletts. We got an attorney and all. We got the beds, cribs, bassinetts, carseats, clothes galore, bottles everything....you can think of. Heck the crib is all up still the babies room is all up n ready. I hurt to see it, and i cant bare to put any of it away, because I know the Lord will find us another mom that is wanting there child to go to a good home... Now what happens, the Birthmom changed her mind. Left and kept all three of the babies. Oh I hurt sooo much you dont even know. I am married and i have 4 kids, and all my kids were ready n they got very hurt to. I can not have no more kids and we are ready to bring another child in our home. I am NOT rich, but my family is stable, and we do fine, the kids have all they need and more. I stay home and devote allll my time to our kids, and my husband works. and these agencies all they ask for is money money money. kids shouldnt have a price tag on them, its wrong, I just hurt and i really want a baby, toddler or a child...to adopt.age dont matter.... I pray all the time... god bless...
Sorry you are hurting. Blessings to you and your family.
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