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My husband has domicile custody of his daughter. The biological mother has not seen her in almost 2 years, the only thing she has done was send a text message maybe 10 times in the whole 2 years. My step daughter is now 6 and says that she never wants to she her biological mother. Does anyone think I might have a chance of adopting her? I know it could be abandonment but does texting count as anything? The reason my husband has custody is because the mother was pretty heavily into drugs, and within the 2 years she hasnt seen her daughter she had another child who was taking away by the state due to drugs. Any advice is greatly apreciated!
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ok, this advise coming from a kid who hated her dad post divorce and whose mom remarried (multiple times). I would not try to replace her mother.
you can be there for her, give her love, and fill in. She may grow up to feel you were her true mom. But wouldn't that be better because she chose that and felt it, rather than because some court ordered it?
for me, having forced to accept my dad is my dad, flaws and all was an important one to learn.
you haven't mentioned how long you're been married. have you been in your daughter's life since birth?
Now, if her other mom would voluntarily TPR, that would be something to consider
If you sue for abandonment, there is risk it may prompt BM to get more involved in your lives. Something to consider
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My husband has domicile custody of his daughter. The biological mother has not seen her in almost 2 years, the only thing she has done was send a text message maybe 10 times in the whole 2 years. My step daughter is now 6 and says that she never wants to she her biological mother. Does anyone think I might have a chance of adopting her? I know it could be abandonment but does texting count as anything? The reason my husband has custody is because the mother was pretty heavily into drugs, and within the 2 years she hasnt seen her daughter she had another child who was taking away by the state due to drugs. Any advice is greatly apreciated!