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I located my bmother in Nov. 2007, we exchanged letters. In her response to me I learned that she had 4 other sons (1 is deceased) and a daughter. All have been aware of me for some time.
There was one meeting in mid 2008, bmom, her husband, my wife and I. No sibs.
Only e-mails & phone calls since. (My doing)
Recently I was caught off guard by a phone call from one of the sons. He called inviting my wife and I to attend a 75th bday party for his mother and as a way for all of us to meet.
We have a prior commitment (no bs), but he pushed for a possible future meeting. He also expressed his sibs have an interest in meeting too, I on the other hand, do not.
Could anyone offer some insight on how to handle this?
It's actualyy pretty simple, if you're noy interested in meeting, I'd be claer on that.They say honesty is the best policy.Maybe someday you will change your mind. Hopefully they will be understanding that you just aren't ready right now.
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