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I was adopted when I was four years old, I knew I was being adopted, I knew my name was getting changed, I remember almost everything. My adoptive parents werent good to me and we're no longer on speaking terms.I have been trying to find even just a hint of who I was before the adoption, but I dont remember anything, and everywhere I look, Im blocked, I dont know where to go, who to ask or anything. Im 23 years old, and I have a little girl myself. She asks me all the time about my parents, and I tell her theyredead, because thats the only answer I can give her that she'll understand at this point, but I wish I had something to give her. some one please help, help me find the words to tell my daughter, and help me find myself
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Has it occurred to you that you may have been in foster care earlier? You may need to look for that avenue, if you were in care from very young until adoption. The part about birthparents having died could be true. Those records may be available. Just a thought, I could be way off base. Any place you were and any people you were with could be valuable to know about.
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well my younger sister and I were adopted together, so Im assuming that for at least the first 2 years of my life I was with my biological family, and something happened after she was born that we were taken away or given up or something, especially since I was born in kentucky, she was born in ohio, and we were both adopted out of the city she was born in, some how that makes sense to me, but Idk
You can search, for free, if you know just your birthdate and birthplace. Go to G's Adoption website, enter your information, as much as you know. If you birthmom is searching, she may see your entry. Also, they have FREE search angels. That's how I found my son, in only 6 weeks.Good luck!