Do adopted daughters get on with their adopted mothers?

Tonya, I think sometimes the fit is not there. I think sometimes it is just the personality of the individual or they way they were parented. The "shoulds" is what I call it. A word best banned in parenting... Just assume the power position and either to choose not to let her comments impact you or choose to confront her in a quiet peaceful manner. It may be more common in adoption that the fit is not there because of biology but it is not exclusive in adoption. As long as YOU are happy where you are in life that is really all that matters. Kind regards,Dickons