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my daughter is due any time now her due date is jan 17 and we thought we had a family but they backed out.. for someone who really wants a child how could they just back out..now where do i start to find more parents for my unborn grand child?my daughter doesnt want her and i cant raise her. we are looking for an open or semi open adoption all we ask for is that the new family can affordt this child and love her dearly. and just send pics and videos onkine or email.thru the years. we want no physical contact with the child what so ever.and when shes old enogh if she wants to meet us thats fine..but we dont want any role in her life.....any advise if appreciated..
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Going through an agency will not mean that the baby would stay within the same state. There are many agencies that place all over the United States and you can find agencies like this by doing a simple web search for adoption agencies. There are also agencies that have ads on the front page of Adoption.com.
but wanting to have yr child adopted would dhs take her child from the hospital? cas if i cant find someone then i will take the baby..its all so confusing.. makes my head spin.. i love this child ooo ima cry but we cant afford her nor take care of her. but we dont want just any family for her. they must have money to afford her and they must have a huge heart cas its my grandchild and i will kill anyone that will hurt her.. sorry i just hear so many horror stories. we had a family but they backed out... why why why... y cant someone want her and love her. we have beautifl women in my family so the child will be amazing.. sorry just venting/....
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There is a person on here who recently said they are adopting out-of-state, from an expectant mother who wants a completely closed adoption. I don't know for sure, but I *imagine* that they are doing this through an agency in their state.If you don't want to go with an agency, again, consult the ads for attorneys in your local phone book. Find some who specialize in adoption and call them. Often the first appointment in many situations with attorneys is free. And I believe in adoptions, it's the adoptive parents who pay the bill.You and your daughter and your grandchild need to be sure this is done 100% legally. Especially for the child's sake and future. Best to you in this process.
Your daughter needs some counseling. You can be totally set on adoption before the baby comes, but afterward it is a completely different story.
Why do you want the baby placed out of state? That would make it much harder to maintain an open adoption with any kind of visits.
You need either an agency or an attorney to advise your daughter of her rights.