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That's how I've been feeling this past week. We were supposed to lose Baby J last Friday as that's when RU with his father was supposed to take place. However, due the bed bug incident a couple weeks ago, Bio-Dad went and got a new apartment and a new crib and mattress so the past two weekend visits were canceled and therefore RU was delayed. But until when, we don't know. CW called today saying that there will be visitation this week for Dad and possible RU. Well, which is it? I fear getting last minute notice and no proper goodbye to our sweet boy!
Also, CW said we're going to be formally invited to a team meeting in support of Bio-Mom. Anybody heard of this? I have nothing good to say about her, does that count? LOL Seriously, wondering if anyone can tell me what and if it's worth going to? Is it just to give positive feedback or what?
I'm not sure about the team meeting for bio-mom. It seems strange to me if they have already planned RU with birth father. It seems to me like things aren't decided just yet.
I hate being in limbo. Those last couple days and weeks are always the hardest, especially when you aren't sure of when or even what is about to happen.
(hugs)just take it one day at a time.:grouphug:
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momof6maybemore
I'm not sure about the team meeting for bio-mom. It seems strange to me if they have already planned RU with birth father. It seems to me like things aren't decided just yet.
I hate being in limbo. Those last couple days and weeks are always the hardest, especially when you aren't sure of when or even what is about to happen.
(hugs)just take it one day at a time.:grouphug:
Well, Bio-Mom is still fighting for custody of him even though Bio-Dad is getting RU. There are a total of 5 children from 4 different fathers. CW said all FP's for the children are invited to attend this meeting. Her lawyer is arguing that she wants all her children back, including our little guy. So, RU for Dad now but custody dispute later? I don't know, it's a mess!
I would attend. Even if it's to give an opinion that is not in her favor. You never know what will happen with his case and things may not work out with the father and you may get him back. You are his advocate so don't be afraid to attend and give statements for or against her.
I agree with Mom of 6. Go because you are an advocate for J. Perhaps the only one!
As for how screwed up the family is - well, they wouldn't have DYFS in their lives if things weren't messed up.