Anyone with Experience in Private Open Adoption in NC??

Hi everyone I was wondering if anyone had some experience with a private open adoption in NC. Afterm knowing about my infertility since I was 15 which has been 12 years, we did try almost 3 years of fertility treatments with no success and almost a year trying to research different types of adoptions in the state I think my husband and I have decided we would like to find a emom who is looking for a open and private adoption. We just do not have the money to go through all the different agencies and would rather make the whole expereince one that we can all feel comfortable in rather than one that is done through a 3rd party. We have been told about two emom who are currently considering adoption but we have not personally been in contact with either mom yet so we are not making any plans. I feel like faith will step in when the right emom and baby come along to help us start our family! I know we look forward to becoming parents and hopefully a special realtionship with the bmom as well. If anyone has any experience please let me know!:thankyou: