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As some of you may remember our quest for our FD,who has been with us 4yrs,and counting,we have some other concerning things that maybe can cause problems...we dont know.
Our old thread....... [url]http://forums.adoption.com/new-jersey-foster-adoption/359771-court-today-we-done.html[/url]
Anyway,we are all doing fine.......she is doing the best ever,and the trial has started in april,postponed,and continue in july,postponed,and will finish in october.
Previous judge dismissed himsel,and then has been suspended(all before trial,so we have new judge for entire trial)
We have had a nephew ,who we adopted 3 yrs ago,and he has turned 18,and has had a rough life,and we tried very hard to help him,but he just would not respond.....
He has been in trouble with the law(grand theft),and was on probation for 2 yrs.....he also stole from us,and several other people.relatives,neighbors
We always forgave him,and this was his home,but we could never trust him....so anyway,we told him when he was 18,he could still stay at home,but in the last few months,he started getting out of control,threatening us,and many other things.
He said he will never listen to us,because he is 18,and told us to go %^$# ourselves....and said he will leave...
so we told him to go....he has been calling,late at night,trying to wake us,threatening us,etc.
I will not get into all the details,as it would take hours to explain.
We have notified the authorities a couple times,and they have record of it.
Also spoke with our lawyer,who said to do it.
Our question is,if we get a restraining order on him,will this affect our case for adopting FD?....
Would they take her,feeling it is not safe for her here?
We feel if we dont do anything,we are not protecting ourselves.
Thank you for any responses,and we always respect the opinions of others in our situation.
tess113
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