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Hi everyone! I just need some advice! We have three bio children and we have tried to conceive our fourth child for almost two years. We have had several miscarriages throughout the way. We got our placement when they were just babies and we fell in love! We found out that the Judge ordered for termination of parental rights (TPR) last week at Court when he find out the babies were in an adoptive home. The parents have been served with the TPR paperwork as well as us. We could not be more excited to have these little babies as ours forever if it all works out. My question is, do I continue to try to conceive our last child? My chances of getting pregnant are not great but it could happen. Will that hurt the adoption process? I am torn as to what to do and any advice is appreciated.
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In theory, no, it shouldn't have a bearing on the adoption process in your situation. But I will tell you there are some CW's out there who might frown on it, and even though, it's really not their business, might try to make things rough for you. They may feel that the boys would not get as much attention if you have a baby in the home, etc. Then there are some who won't even bat an eyelash. (I have dealt with both kinds of CW's.)
I think the CW's (and the rest of the team) will be concerned with the boys- that is their job really. And they will ask, will the boys still get the amount of time and attention they need in your family. It sounds like from your other post, the GAL is very comfortable with the kiddos in your family though. So it seems as if they would not have a problem with it. Good luck in whatever you decide.
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