Birth grandparents' inappropriate comments

That is horrid!!! No experience other than to know it is a sure fired way to completely confuse your daughter and result in detrimental long term effects. Do you have to keep up the contact? I am a birthmum who would like to believe contact would be a positive in her life... but this? It is wrong, it is not positive and it sucks!! Can you talk to the birthmum about this? Howcome they werent there to support their daughter when she had her baby???? Grrrrrrrrrrr. They need to go away!!!