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hi my names is sarah,
i am 22 years old and have given up a baby girl for adotion. she was born oct 14 2011 she is 15 months old right now i am struggling alot due to the fact up untell she was 11mounths i was able to be part of her life now i am not. i feel very hopeless i cry all the time due to this i am struggling alot with the holidays i am angary at my self cuss i want to keep her i find myself thinking what if i kept her. i know this probaly makes no since but i am jsut looking for support to help me with this i have had a hard time finding it.
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Sarah you are very young and you have your whole life ahead of you. I know how bad it hurts but punishing yourself will not make things change or make them better. I really want you to do something nice for yourself every single day. Even if it is just looking in the mirror and telling yourself that you are beautiful, and worthy of respect and love.
I am sorry you are not able to be part of your daughter's life. I don't know the circumstances but I do know it is a painful blow to the heart and soul.
I have found that helping others can soothe the pain and give back confidence. If you can find a charity or good work to contribute to if may make you and others feel better.
(((((Hugs))))))
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hi my names is sarah,
i am 22 years old and have given up a baby girl for adotion. she was born oct 14 2011 she is 15 months old right now i am struggling alot due to the fact up untell she was 11mounths i was able to be part of her life now i am not. i feel very hopeless i cry all the time due to this i am struggling alot with the holidays i am angary at my self cuss i want to keep her i find myself thinking what if i kept her. i know this probaly makes no since but i am jsut looking for support to help me with this i have had a hard time finding it.
It does get better. I surrendered my baby girl 24 years ago. It took a very very long time to overcome the loss and try to live again. But I did it. It was an uphill struggle every second. It gets better. But for me, it took everything I had as a human being to be able to live again--to function! And in the process of losing my daughter, I lost myself, my family support and my self respect and my dreams of what I thought life could be like and how good it could be. It took digging my nails, fisting and kicking just to make it back from this terrible loss. But to any woman who has given up their most precious part of them, I will say it can be done. But not alone. Find those who truly love you help. God Bless You. I wish I could do more for you than this. So sorry for your loss.
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