30 Single Male Adoption IL

You are being a bit uppity for being someone with no experience. They are giving honest, experienced advice. You don't have to like it, but it doesn't make it less true. The kids do need help, they do need a family, but sometimes they don't want one and they aren't going to be grateful and thankful (not most) to you for taking them in. They are going to see you as another stepping stone to whatever is next. Don't get down on people giving you real advice. They aren't telling you not to do it, they are urging you to make sure you are thinking about it from all sides, do your research and understand it isn't going to be a merry-go-round ride.