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We are freaking out because they did find her a placement 45 minutes away from us in a college town where she knows TONS of kids so it will be very easy to get a ride here. We are having an alarm system installed. She had to be out by the 26th so this was quick last minute placement so wonder WHAT kind of family this is. She is in a pre placement visit for the next two days and has been on FACEBOOK! Where was this close placement when she needed it? Lord this just gets worse. My son's ex girlfriend goes to that school and she babies her like no other. We asked that we be notified if they let her come here to visit friends. I really don't want another $60 out of budget for an alarm but it's worth it to NOT be looking over my shoulder and know my autistic son is safe here alone.
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Something I've learned over the years with my dangerous kids, with whom I'm now estranged, is that we think of them FAR MORE than they think of us. I had our locks changed, alarms installed, caller id put on our phones, and looked over my shoulder for a long time. Come to find out they go on with their lives, never looking back to see the damage they left behind in our family.
Do what you need to in order to feel safe, but just know that she's going on with her life, manipulating new people, playing the victim, hanging out with people she shouldn't. You are the last one she's thinking about.
These kids (adults in my kids' case) don't have the capacity to look outside themselves. They think the world revolves around them. Look up Borderline Personality.
((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) I've btdt.
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