adopted

Flum, I read your post and will try to help you.I am a male adoptee and I have serched for a very long time. I have never found my b-parents, but I have learned alot about adoption and searching.I would recommend that you try as much as possible to put the pieces of what you want, together.Who do you want to search for and hope to find? Mother, Father, family? etc.The next step is to put all the facts that you know together. This will make your searching clearer when you ask for help.Finally, it might be advisable for you to contact a search angel. That way you can share all the facts without anyone attempting to get you to pay for information you already know. Search angels on this site are free. Should you decide to search internationally, there are international search angels who may be able to help.Finally, if you search on your own, hold back some vital pieces of information known only to you so that anyone attempting a scam won't have all the pieces of information and you will recognize it as a scam.I wish you the best.