Did anyone place through these agencies?

Hi folks. For those who don't know me, I'm an adoptive mom. I am considering adopting again, but I want to make sure that I go through an agency that really does help expectant moms make an independent choice, rather than subtly (or not so subtly) steering them toward adoption. I am wondering if anyone placed through either or the following agencies; if so, do you feel that they treated you respectfully, really helped you think through all of your options, and helped you try to find a way to parent if you wanted to? I am looking specifically at the special needs programs in both agencies. Adoption Star, Inc Spence-Chapin If anyone does have thoughts or information and would be willing to send me a PM, I would be very grateful.