What if you do not like the person your child became?

I gave my daughter up for adoption in 1986. We reconnected in 2015 and have been in. each other's lives ever since. I have two other daughters with whom she has formed relationships. Over the past almost ten years we've spent a lot of time together and a few years ago I realized that I do not like her. I tried to learn to like her because she is my daughter, but things just kept getting worse and I think she is a horrible person. She is spoiled, selfish, self-centered, and nothing at all like her sisters that I raised. I honestly regret reconnecting with her and I want to walk away from the relationship. I am wondering if anyone else has had those feelings after reconnecting with your child you put up for adoption.