foster/adopt single mom

Originally Posted By JudyMy husband passed away 2 years ago. Six months after his death I started doing foster care. At the present time I have a 4 year old and a 4 month old(whom I have had since she was 12 days old.) Her parents just signed over their rights. I would like to adopt her. Iam 48 years old (as of May 13th) I work full time as a nurse.I live in N.J. I would like to talk with other single moms/dads whom have done foster/adopt.and how they handled problems as the child became older.